#HowtoNetwork Over the Holidays (Without Feeling Awkward or Pushy)

The holiday season usually brings thoughts of relaxation, celebration, and time away from work. What many job seekers don’t realize is that it’s also one of the most effective (and overlooked) times of year to grow your network. While inboxes may be quieter and offices may be short-staffed, people are often more open, reflective, and generous during this season. That makes the holidays a perfect opportunity to make meaningful professional connections.

Here’s how to keep your job search warm while everyone else is cooling off for the year.

1. Remember: You Already Have a Network

One of the biggest misconceptions in career development is, “I don’t have a network.”The truth? If you know people, you have a network.

Your network includes:

• Former colleagues, classmates, and professors

• Friends and family

• Community members, neighbors, or parents from your kid’s school

• People in volunteer groups, gyms, or clubs

• Online connections (LinkedIn counts!)

The holidays naturally bring many of these people together. Use that to your advantage.

Tip: You don’t need to ask for a job. Simply share what you’re exploring:

“I’m considering a transition into project management next year. If you know anyone I should talk to, I’d love an introduction.”

People can’t help you if they don’t know what you’re aiming for.

2. Attend Holiday Gatherings with Intention

Parties, community events, end-of-year meetups: these are all low-pressure networking environments because conversations are more relaxed.

Before attending, think about:

• Who might be there

• What you want to share about your career goals

• How you can add value or support others

You don’t need to “work the room.” Focus on one or two genuine conversations. Authenticity builds far more connection than handing out business cards ever will.

3. Send Thoughtful Holiday Messages

Reaching out during the holidays doesn’t have to feel transactional. A simple, warm message can reopen old relationships or strengthen existing ones.

A few templates you can use:

Reconnect with an old colleague:

“Hi [Name], I hope you’re enjoying the season! I’ve been thinking about past projects and how much I appreciated working with you. Would love to reconnect in the new year if you’re open.”

Check in with a mentor or industry contact:

“Wishing you a wonderful holiday season! Thank you again for your guidance this year. Your advice has been incredibly helpful.”

Light job-search nudge (without pressure):

“As I plan for 2026, I’m exploring roles in [industry/role]. If you know anyone I should connect with, I’d appreciate any introductions.”

Short, genuine, and warm is all it takes.

4. Use Social Platforms Strategically (Especially LinkedIn)

While people may be away from the office, they’re often scrolling. Use this slow season to:

• Update your LinkedIn profile

• Share a short holiday reflection about your professional year

• Comment thoughtfully on others’ posts

• Send personalized connection requests to people you’ve met this year

This is one of the best times to stand out because fewer people are posting.

5. Give Before You Ask

The holidays are the perfect time to be generous with your own expertise.

Think about how you can help others by:

• Sharing a resource

• Offering encouragement

• Making introductions

• Congratulating people on their wins

• Highlighting others’ achievements online

When you give value first, networking becomes natural, not awkward.

6. Set Up Coffee Chats for the New Year

If people are too busy now, ask to schedule something for January. It’s a great way to start the new year with momentum.

You can say:

“I know this is a busy season. Would you be open to a 20-minute coffee chat in early January? I’d love to learn more about your work.”

This keeps your job search active without demanding immediate action.

Final Thoughts: Connection Doesn’t Take a Holiday

Networking during the holiday season isn’t about asking for favors or being pushy. It’s about nurturing relationships, showing up authentically, and reminding yourself that you’re already surrounded by people who want to support you.

Your next opportunity might come from the most unexpected conversation (at a party, in a holiday message, or simply by reconnecting with someone you haven’t spoken to in a while).

So as you celebrate, reflect, and recharge, remember: Your career growth doesn’t have to pause. '

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